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So I'll have to wait until tomorrow and lists w./$

Journal Entry: Mon Dec 24, 2012, 7:24 PM
Hey my sister's better boyfriend is sick and my niece is starting out by coughing alot. So that means I'm staying home until tomorrow morning. Well there is a few things I'm wanting to do with my christmas money... here it is:

:bulletred:Get a new laptop/desktop when I have enough money to pay.

:bulletgreen:If I have some left or don't have enough for that, (at most of $175) I'm gonna have me and My love be taken to walmart or a reasonable jewelry store by his buddy and shop for an engagement ring.

:bulletred:Or have him surprise me with a ring he bought with the money I give him.

My love wants to marry me and I am accepting it (Don't complain about me being too young to marry, well honestly I graduated high school first and moved on to living on my own, Never got pregnant during high school like the majority of people who graduated/went to school with me) the saying must approve: Education first, relationships last

To me love is not about money. It's something to live for without a price, and my mom complains about him not having money and not helping me (Honestly she needs to lay off the $$$ subject and appreciate that I have someone who is better at heart than most guys out there)

he has been helping with the food mostly and we help each other, we care for each other.

well when I get the ring I will truly be engaged. I'll let you all know how it goes and idk how this is gonna work :3

well wishing you a great holiday

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sawyerLUVSyou Featured By Owner Dec 27, 2012  Hobbyist
You probably shouldn't rush into marriage. D; Especially if he doesn't have a job or a car... It will make things extremely stressful and might end up pushing you to your edge.
Your mom's right about the money thing, even though it seems shallow. Both partners of the relationship need to be stable with an income and transportation to make it work better. :s
Right now you might want to marry him, but you might change your mind later. You both should try to stabilize your lives right now and see if you feel the same way later.
I hope you had a good Christmas.
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Kharizmo Featured By Owner Dec 26, 2012  Hobbyist Traditional Artist
Engagement? Already?
Haven't you only dated him a short while? Why are you rushing so fast? I've had boyfriends last 1-2 years and engagement wasn't even mentioned on a seriouse matter.

You got so much yet to get to do in life. Listen to your mother, she knows how life works.

Just advice.
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Lady-ALTernate Featured By Owner Dec 26, 2012  Hobbyist Digital Artist
it was my love's idea well I think I'll talk to him about doing it later in life sometime he didn't get the ring yet but well.

She got married and quit high school too (that's when my brother came along) not happy about my sister and mom's actions but at least I graduated ya know... I know I'm "young" but people need to realize if it's at legal age or over to date it's all good.

idk I'm fucked inside idk :shrug:
about my life... I'm tired of my life being based on mommy and daddy all the time (being sarcastic yet truthful about it). I want someone who is the one I love, and well idk what to say

Sorry if I sounded stubborn but I need someone to help my accompanying, Sometimes keep track, and I'm trying to do the same with him
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Kharizmo Featured By Owner Dec 27, 2012  Hobbyist Traditional Artist
Yes but you have to think about your future as well.
I'm 21 and still living at home and I have a job, car, and am going to
school as well to add to my transcript. I could've gotten married at
19 if I wanted to too but I'm saving my money and preparing to live for
myself. Cause whether you're married or not, your spouse will not be there
forever. You have to learn to be happy on your own and have a plan. Not just
jump into something so big and unprepared for expecting to be taken care of.
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Lady-ALTernate Featured By Owner Dec 27, 2012  Hobbyist Digital Artist
you're right about nothing lasts forever. I just told him tonight that we need to slow down and wait a few more months sorry for my intelligence and rush but I'm not doing anything for anyone unless it's for them a favor (like feed the animals)
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Kharizmo Featured By Owner Dec 27, 2012  Hobbyist Traditional Artist
You just gotta take care of the basic needs it takes to be a responsible adult, which is work, money, schooling (if needed), independent transportation and your own residence. After all that is comfortable in your life and can manage yourself, you're ready to get married.
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MissRenaKitsune Featured By Owner Dec 26, 2012  Hobbyist Digital Artist
isn't this a little sudden? how long have you been dating this guy? i remember following you not to long ago and at the time you didnt have a boyfriend? :S not trying to sound mean.
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Lady-ALTernate Featured By Owner Dec 26, 2012  Hobbyist Digital Artist
since late September early October

it's ok to be curious it's ok
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MissRenaKitsune Featured By Owner Dec 27, 2012  Hobbyist Digital Artist
ya. dont you think its kinda.... early? to be looking for an engagement ring?
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Lady-ALTernate Featured By Owner Dec 27, 2012  Hobbyist Digital Artist
yeah he told me to wait I was ok with that :3
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